Monday, April 4, 2011

Excuse Me, Is This The Way To Heaven?

 I sat down this afternoon to flip through a magazine.  Of all the magazines that I have here in my house, this particular one is a bit of an oddity.  I usually read home and fashion magazines, but this one happened to be sent to my husband.  About a month ago, my husband received his first issue of Ebony magazine.  To truly understand how off the mark this was, you have to know that my husband and I are about the whitest people you will ever meet.   After we stopped laughing about this, we gathered that through his online purchases at Christmas-time, he somewhere unknowingly subscribed to the magazine.  I have heard of this happening to other people. 
Today, I thought that I would just give it a little look, out of curiosity.  I had hoped to find something of interest, most likely something to do with fashion or decorating.  To my surprise, I came across an article that caught my interest, so I began to read it.  The article was titled, “Shifting Faith” by Adrienne Samuels Gibbs.  She was taking a look at the shift away from traditional church.  I know that this was aimed at pointing out “a growing number of people shifting the way they exhibit faith by worshipping outside of church, switching from a traditional denomination to one less common for Black folks or flat-out deciding to become “spiritual” and not “Christian” to accommodate a more modern lifestyle.”(quoted from the article)  The number of nondenominational churches has been growing.  In the 1990s, the number of Christians who identified themselves as nondenominational was fewer than 200,000.  As of 2008, more than 8 million Americans now consider themselves as such.

She pointed out many reasons for the split:

*Dislike of church politics

*Disengagement from old-school traditions

*The church is no longer the sole social gathering place and political organization that it once was.

*People want to worship God on their own time and in their own ways.  God is not “just a Sunday thing.”

She went on to explain, the effect that this is having on the African-American community, the lack of strong churches coinciding with the lack of strong community.  As we learned from Martin Luther, a shift away from the traditional church makes sense.  People will begin to know God on their own and this will lead to an acceptance of new ways of worship.

          I know that I have missed my fair share of Sunday services.  I also know that when I am not focused on God, my life seems to fall apart.  When I am centered in my faith and living the life that He has planned out for me, it is a heck of a lot smoother.  Not always a dance in the tulips, but easier to navigate.  I have often wondered if going to church every Sunday is a deal breaker.  Can I be fully centered and focused on Him and not have a church home?  Let me  reassure my friends who are reading this and have started to worry about me, I’m not planning on boycotting church anytime soon.  I just know that there are those who believe that the only path to righteousness is through church.  Or, is it really as simple as “For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”  Matthew 18:20.  If you pray on your own, gather with other believers to do bible studies, surround yourself with a community of like-minded people, and serve others.  Do you need to go to church?
Throughout time, brave people stepped outside of the norm and made changes and reformed.  What they had been doing was not working.  God’s word was not getting to those who needed to hear it most.  Throughout the history, there were courageous men and women who bucked the system.  It wasn’t easy and many times they started out alone on their path or died for their faith.  Who’s to say that as people pull away from the traditions of old and are forming new relationships with God, that this will not be able to touch others who before were considered untouchable.

*Important information:  I quoted and cited specific parts of Adrienne Samuels Gibbs' article.  I tried to mention every time that I did this.  So, I hope that I did not miss anything.

12 comments:

Nena said...

I love the name of your blog. I'm the only girl, too, my friend, in a house of 5 boys!
Interesting article in Ebony...I don't think God is impressed by our pharisaical church attendance. He is more interested in the attitude of the heart; however, Hebrews 10:25 says, Let us not give up meeting together as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the more as you see the Day approaching.
Blessings, Nena

Robin@CrashingTheBoy'sClub said...

Hi Nena;
Thanks for stopping by. My sweet hubby helped me come up with this cool name. Five boys, huh? Impressive. You look great. I don't see a bit of gray or even a wrinkle. We, Moms of All Boys, have to stick together.

Thank you for adding Hebrews 10:25. I do believe that as we keep gathering together to worship Him, the body of Christ becomes stronger.

I hope that you'll come back and visit again soon.

tjalaine said...

Thanks for sharing, Robin! I definitely believe that you do not need to attend church to be close to God. I also know that going to church every week means nothing if you aren't a good person. I think every person should find what works for them. Personally, church isn't for me, but my best friends really enjoys it, and that's fine. I think it's great that people are starting to recognize and accept this movement, and I do think it may help to reach individuals that the church could not.

Robin@CrashingTheBoy'sClub said...

You are very welcome. I believe that people have to find their own way to God. He is always with us and is waiting for us to ask Him into our lives. He wants us to have an open heart to Him.

MySaggyButt said...

Love the name of your blog too! I do go to church almost every week. It's the one place I can sit quietly without my "crack"berry ringing and any other of life's distractions and enjoy the peace! And I like to sing my heart out...it feels great! Thanks for stopping by my blog!

Robin@CrashingTheBoy'sClub said...

Thank you, Saggy. I LOVE the name of your blog.

I really enjoy church. Our worship band is great and singing, for me, is as if I'm talking directly to God. Music is one of my most favorite ways to worship. And, like you, for that hour and a half, nothing outside the church walls exist. It's just me and God.

Alexis of NorthOnHarper said...

First- what an interesting article in a magazine that I thought was fashion driven.

Second- I really liked your take on the issues brought up....

Third-thank you SO much for the bday wishes!!!!

Robin@CrashingTheBoy'sClub said...

Your so welcome. I hope that you had a fabulous birthday.

I know what you mean. I was really caught by surprise by that article.

Heather said...

No, going to church isn't a deal breaker! I'm sorry, but it's not salvation by church. On the other hand, I've found that going to church help center me for the week!

Robin@CrashingTheBoy'sClub said...

Thank you, Heather. I'm so glad to hear from you. I had hoped that you would check in.

I agree with you. I find that I am much more focused on Him, when I do go to church. It's always a nice way to start my week...focused and faithful.

Katie said...

Thanks for sharing this article...it may make me go pick up a copy of Ebony (I too am the whitest of the white...extremely pale variety) just to read it in it's entirety!

Robin@CrashingTheBoy'sClub said...

Hi Katie;
I would recommend picking up this issue. Not only for that article, but there are also 2 other intersting ones. One is an bio about a lady finding her faith. And, the other is filled with interviews with a number of women with prominent roles in various churches. All are good reads.